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Thursday, March 6, 2014

Chapter 31

Today is my 31st birthday. Yup I’m entering Chapter 31 of this book I call my life. The previous 30 chapters of my life’s book have been far from a fairy tale but, perfect in there own right and I honestly wouldn’t change them for the world.  It is because of my life experiences, and all that I have overcome that have made me the WOMEN I am today. This honestly leads me to believe that, Chapter 31 one will only be another perfectly imperfect addition to my book of life.

In general my view on birthdays is... They are SUPER special. Especially, since it is the only day out the year that everyone takes time to honor just you. After all, the other holidays throughout the year are shared with everyone else so your birthday is to be celebrated :). And, of course since my celebratory options were limited last year. I thought of a million ways in which I could turn the heck up this year (I mean it's only the redo of my 30th birthday that my hubby and friends promised...This is my year bet I won't turn down lol). Unfortunately, none of my grand ideas to turn up worked out :(. So, I don’t really have any major plans for the day. As it stands I'm headed to get my hair and nails done. Then I plan to take a little me time this afternoon until it’s time to get Olivia Madison from daycare. 

However, there is a one thing I plan to accomplish during my “me time” this afternoon. A few years back I read a post on my friend Nikki of Curly Nikki site where she spent her 28th birthday taking a page out of a friend of hers book. And sent out thank you’ s to those who had influenced her life. The goal of this exercise is to show gratitude to people no matter how large or small their impact has been on you. Over the past week I have thought long and hard about whom I wanted to write and my list is long but, then again why wouldn’t it be after 30 chapters’ lol.   

With that being said, you all are first :)
I would like to thank each and every one of you for your continued support. Although we are in a new space (on the web) so many of you have followed me as I tried various endeavors. You all have shown me so much love and encouragement along the way that I’m grateful for. Thanks for taking time for your days to read about my life it truly means the world to me.

14 comments:

  1. AWWW! I absolutely LOVE the idea of thanking those around you on your birthday! I think, the way you adopted this from Nikki and Nikki adopted this from her friend, I'll adopt it from you next year :) You truly are a wonderful person who deserves all great things in life! Happy 31derful birthday, boo!

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    1. Thanks Tabby. It was a very emotional process but so worth it :)

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  2. That's a good idea. We don't show people how important they are enough. An when people die we be at funerals wishing we could tell them things we forgot. Let them smell the roses while they here. Nice Job! Stealing this on my birthday. Thanks Sheena. Happy Birthday.to you. I understand the birthday woes too. Wesley was born a few weeks after my birthday and my plans fell through because we were on watch! Kids ruin all the TURN UP! Either that or Old Age! One of them. LOL

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    1. Right Marcus. These little kiddies always find a way to show us who's BOSS...lol

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  3. Happy birthday I love this and my steal this idea for my birthday! Enjoy your me time

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  4. Hope you enjoyed your day and may God bless you with many more!

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  5. This is such a great idea! And a wonderful testament to how giving and thoughtful you are girlie. Hope your Chapter 31 is as great as the former!

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    1. Thanks Lauren. I'm hoping Chapter 31 is great as well.

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  6. This is an excellent idea... you are very thoughtful it's the little things that warm people's heart and this is one of them.... your such a beautiful spirit inside and out! !

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    1. Thanks Ebony. I appreciate you more than you could ever know. xoxo

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